Thursday, October 31, 2013

New Options

Hey everyone! Ball tickets are available for purchase beginning tomorrow, Nov. 1st. We have a few updates to our dress code. Go to our Historical Outfits page to view them. Also on that page, you can see information about a few new options we're providing for your convenience. This year, we will have Civil War Skirts available for rent or purchase. Hoop skirts will also be available for purchase.

Wednesday, October 16, 2013

Ball

We are looking forward to seeing everyone again on March 1,2014. Tickets will be available starting November 1. Stay tuned for announcements about a couple of new exciting options we're adding to the ball this year!
Also, remember, if we reach 120 Facebook page likes, I will be giving away a prize! Invite all your homeschool friends to like our page. As soon as we reach our goal, all who like our page will be automatically entered.

Wednesday, August 28, 2013

SAVE THE DATE!!!

SAVE THE DATE!!!
The Spring Civil War Ball will be Saturday, March 1st.
Location: Prayer Mountain in Sand Springs, OK
Time: 6-10p.m.

More details to soon follow. We can't wait to see everyone again!
 
 

Wednesday, August 21, 2013

Fall Ball Announcement!

Hi all! Well, as you all know, a Fall Ball was in the plans. However, many road blocks and schedule conflicts kept arising, so unfortunately, we will not be having one this fall. 

 ~Good news, though!~
 We will definitely be having a Spring and Fall one in 2014. I will be announcing the dates of the one in the Spring within the week. The dates for Fall will come soon following. I hope everyone has a blessed week.
Until next time.....

Wednesday, July 10, 2013

Possibility of Another Ball

I have received some interest in having 2 balls a year. We had a wonderful turnout and great feedback from our ball back in April. The Fall Ball is in the works and will probably be sometime around the middle of October. As soon as plans are set in stone, I will make the announcement on here! Stay tuned...

Saturday, March 30, 2013

Family Photo Sessions

 
As a convenience to you, a photographer will be attending the ball to photograph the night. Not only will he be photographing everyone dancing, but he is also taking appointments for formal family shots outside before the ball. There is no extra charge. You will have the option to purchase prints OR you can purchase a CD for only $25 that will include all photos and videos taken throughout the night (including formal shots). This is a great way to get family pictures for a very affordable price.
If you have not yet scheduled your time slot, please contact me to do so at:
 
 
P.S. Only 2 weeks until the ball!!
Erin
 

Sunday, March 17, 2013

Deadline Extended

The original deadline for purchasing tickets has passed. However, there are still some tickets available, so we are extending the deadline to Monday, April 8th! These last tickets will go quickly, so hurry and purchase yours so you won't miss out on the fun.
We are so excited to see everyone's families in their period clothing. Feel free to contact me with any questions you may have: (918)373-3746.

Friday, March 1, 2013

Time is Ticking

Wow, can you believe it's already March?? Time flies when you're having fun. The Ball is quickly approaching- only 43 days away!! Don't forget the deadline to purchase your tickets is March 13th-only 12 days away! Keep spreading around the information to all of your homeschool friends. A few exciting things to remember:
*all ages are welcome
*homeschool graduates are also highly encouraged to attend
*this is going to be a very family-friendly event


I've had some people ask if this is an event for just certain ages. The answer is absolutely no! This event is for the entire homeschool family. We would love to see your entire family attend. Also, remember that children age 5 & under are FREE! Also, if you homeschooled your children, but they are all grown and out of the house, please feel free to come. We are strongly encouraging family fun in a safe environment.
Ladies, please don't become discouraged if you don't own a fancy ballgown. You do NOT have to be fancy at all. This is all about having fun. Visit our Historical Outfits link for some simple ideas. If you can not come up with an outfit, please do not let this stop you from coming. We just ask that you wear a long skirt.


Let me know if you have any other questions.

Erin
thecivilwarball@yahoo.com

Thursday, January 17, 2013

No Experience Required

I have had several people mention that they aren't sure they can come to the ball because they don't know how to do the dances. I want to verify that there is NO previous knowledge of period dancing required!! The dance caller will thouroughly go through each dance to make sure everyone understands before moving on. So in conclusion, please don't let the fear of not knowing how to dance stop you from coming. :) We would love to see your family there.

Sunday, January 13, 2013

Dancing Etiquette

 
Ballroom Etiquette was taken very seriously. I have found some interesting info on the subject and have posted it below. Knowing how they would have acted back then helps us to keep the ball as historically accurate as possible. And, well.... let's face it-it just makes it even more enjoyable :)
 
 
 

Never forget that ladies are to be first cared for, to have the best seats, the places of distinction, and are entitled in all cases to your courteous protection.

No young lady should go to a ball, without the protection of a married lady, or an elderly gentleman.

The customary honors of a bow and courtesy should be given at the commencement and conclusion of each dance.

After dancing, a gentleman should invariably conduct a lady to a seat, unless she otherwise desires: and in fact, a lady should not be unattended, at any time in a public assembly.

If you accompany your wife to a dancing party, be careful not to dance with her, except perhaps for the first set.

A gentleman should not address a lady unless he has been properly introduced.

In inviting a lady to dance, the words, "Will you honor me with your hand . . ." are used more now than "Will you give me the pleasure of dancing . . .".

Certain persons are appointed to act as floor managers . . . if you are entirely a stranger, it is to them you must apply for a partner.

Be very careful how you refuse to dance with a gentleman. A prior engagement will, of course, excuse you but if you plead fatigue, do not dance the set with another.

A gentleman introduced to a lady by a floor manager . . . should not be refused by the lady if she is not already engaged, for her refusal would be a breach of good manners.

Dance quietly, do not kick and caper about, nor sway your body to and fro, dance only from the hips downwards.

Lead a lady as lightly as you would tread a measure with a spirit of gossamer.

The fall of a couple is not a frequent occurrence in a ball room, but when it does happen it is almost always the man's fault. Girls take much more naturally to the graceful movements of the dance, and are, besides, more often taught in childhood than their brothers.

Never remain in a ballroom until all of the company have left, or even until the last set. It is ill bred, and looks as if you are unaccustomed to such pleasures, and so desirous to prolong each one. Leave while there are two or three sets to be danced.

It is best to carry two pairs of gloves, as in contact with dark dresses, or in handling refreshments, you may soil a pair, and thus will be under the necessity of offering your hand covered in a soiled glove to some partner. You can slip unperceived from the room, change the soiled for a fresh pair, and then avoid that mortification.
 
Upon entering the ballroom, the gentleman’s first duty was to procure a program for his Ballroom Dancingpartner, and to introduce his friends, who placed their names on her card for the dances engaged. The sound of a trumpet was generally the signal for the assembly to take their positions on the floor for dancing. A gentleman would, in all cases, dance the first set with the lady in company with him, after which he could exchange partners with a friend; or dance again with her, as circumstances or inclination would dictate.
A Victorian lady could not refuse the invitation of a gentleman to dance, unless she had already accepted that of another, for she would be guilty of an incivility. Ladies who danced often, would be very careful not to boast of the great number of dances for which they were engaged in advance before those who danced but little or not at all. They would also, without being seen, recommend these less fortunate ladies to gentlemen of their acquaintance. At a private ball or party, a lady would show reserve, and not show more preference for one gentleman than another; moreover, she would dance with all who asked properly.

 

Thursday, January 10, 2013

Welcome

My family attended a Homeschool Civil War Ball last year. It was scheduled to be again this year in January. but unfortunately, it had to be canceled. I decided to host one at the same location this year. It will be located at Prayer Mountain in Sand Springs, OK on April 13th. Check-in will be from 6-7 and the ball will be from 7-10.
Check out the 'Tickets' tab for pricing information.
Please invite all of the homeschool families you know. We all had a grand time last year and are looking forward to another night of meeting other like-minded homeschool families. We hope you can attend. E-mail me with any questions you may have: thecivilwarball@yahoo.com